In Ahmedabad in Region of Naroda , last place of the general public , there was full hush in the house , on normal crevices individuals were assembled and stand out sentence was heard in that full quiet with a sound of blame in his voice " I was just at shortcoming , I am the main explanation behind his suicide. I was not ready to comprehend the emotions of my own child." An overall taughtful and a blameworthy father was yelling in that hush simply in light of the fact that he lost his just child who was considering at the L. D Engineering College Ahmedabad.
He was a splendid learner of this school however simply because of less grades in one semester the father chastened him that in next semester he need him to top the school. The kid attempted to converse with his father about his circumstance that he was having some issue in his life however the father constantly disregarded him by reprimanding. His companions thought about his despondency so they counseled an analyst and the therapist said that he shouldn't be pressurized any more or it may hurt his life. The companions additionally educated his guardians about his circumstance however the folks as constantly overlooked in light of the fact that they don't comprehend what gloom really was.
At last disappointed with the exam and the results only one prior day the exam the Boy suicide with a little letter with only four words however it clarified what he really needed to say in conclusion.
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I am perusing daily papers normally from around a month and what I perceive is that from one month I watched 30 instances of suicide which implies one case for every day. The greatest reality of my perception was that just about more than 90% of cases were of the adolescents who were generally instructed and the fundamental purpose behind their suicide was simply that they were not fit to handle their issues of life. We live in such environment where everybody is eager of achievement. Everybody needs to accomplish achievement and they require that accomplishment as quickly as time permits implies practically less work and more achievement. This all results in only one query that are we not understanding what we require in the way of achievement. Its not that the person who endeavors suicide don't cherish their life. Everybody cherishes their life.
The main reasons for suicide are anger, sadness, depression, etc. If you face failure never think you failed just think why you failed and what lead you to such failure, find reasons for failure and work hard on it instead of thinking negatively. Just think of changing failure to success .It has been observed that many a times family members of that individual who suicide remain unaware of the reason of depression. There will be many places in life where everyone may face some kind of failure but just remember one thing in life, time never remain the same forever it keeps on changing . Today’s world is competitive one. Everyone is running a race for success and everyone wants to be first. The wish of being successful is good and everyone wishes for such and they should but having a fear of failure in heart may lack you behind. Due to small failures we just get afraid and start getting angry sometimes with others and many a times with our own self. Sometimes thinking of others and our image we don’t show our anger to others but this may not harm our image but it harm and kills ourselves deep inside heart.
Writer's Desk - Main reason for a person to commit suicide is that he / she prove that he is innocent and can’t afford the pain of failure. Just remember IF YOU HAVE COURAGE TO SUICIDE YOU HAVE MUCH MORE COURAGE AND ENERGY TO FACE THE FAILURES. BE BOLD AND CONFIDENT TO FACE EVERY PROBLEM OF YOUR LIFE IT JUST MAKES YOU STRONG.
When you fail in life just remember one poem which is as follows
Today What We Lack Is Patience
In Ahmedabad in Region of Naroda , last place of the general public , there was full hush in the house , on normal crevices individuals were assembled and stand out sentence was heard in that full quiet with a sound of blame in his voice " I was just at shortcoming , I am the main explanation behind his suicide. I was not ready to comprehend the emotions of my own child." An overall taughtful and a blameworthy father was yelling in that hush simply in light of the fact that he lost his just child who was considering at the L. D Engineering College Ahmedabad.
He was a splendid learner of this school however simply because of less grades in one semester the father chastened him that in next semester he need him to top the school. The kid attempted to converse with his father about his circumstance that he was having some issue in his life however the father constantly disregarded him by reprimanding. His companions thought about his despondency so they counseled an analyst and the therapist said that he shouldn't be pressurized any more or it may hurt his life. The companions additionally educated his guardians about his circumstance however the folks as constantly overlooked in light of the fact that they don't comprehend what gloom really was.
At last disappointed with the exam and the results only one prior day the exam the Boy suicide with a little letter with only four words however it clarified what he really needed to say in conclusion.
FINAL EXAM FINAL EXIT
I am perusing daily papers normally from around a month and what I perceive is that from one month I watched 30 instances of suicide which implies one case for every day. The greatest reality of my perception was that just about more than 90% of cases were of the adolescents who were generally instructed and the fundamental purpose behind their suicide was simply that they were not fit to handle their issues of life. We live in such environment where everybody is eager of achievement. Everybody needs to accomplish achievement and they require that accomplishment as quickly as time permits implies practically less work and more achievement. This all results in only one query that are we not understanding what we require in the way of achievement. Its not that the person who endeavors suicide don't cherish their life. Everybody cherishes their life.
The main reasons for suicide are anger, sadness, depression, etc. If you face failure never think you failed just think why you failed and what lead you to such failure, find reasons for failure and work hard on it instead of thinking negatively. Just think of changing failure to success .It has been observed that many a times family members of that individual who suicide remain unaware of the reason of depression. There will be many places in life where everyone may face some kind of failure but just remember one thing in life, time never remain the same forever it keeps on changing . Today’s world is competitive one. Everyone is running a race for success and everyone wants to be first. The wish of being successful is good and everyone wishes for such and they should but having a fear of failure in heart may lack you behind. Due to small failures we just get afraid and start getting angry sometimes with others and many a times with our own self. Sometimes thinking of others and our image we don’t show our anger to others but this may not harm our image but it harm and kills ourselves deep inside heart.
Writer's Desk - Main reason for a person to commit suicide is that he / she prove that he is innocent and can’t afford the pain of failure. Just remember IF YOU HAVE COURAGE TO SUICIDE YOU HAVE MUCH MORE COURAGE AND ENERGY TO FACE THE FAILURES. BE BOLD AND CONFIDENT TO FACE EVERY PROBLEM OF YOUR LIFE IT JUST MAKES YOU STRONG.
When you fail in life just remember one poem which is as follows
© ACADEMIA ARALAR. Estella, Navarra.
Children and tennangers suffer a lot of pressure since they start shcool. When we are odler we can handle it better and we know the big number of posibilties. But as a children, this kind of pressure can affect really bad.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, children should not take school in such a serious way. What they do on primary school dose not really count. It should be taught that a bad grade is not the end of the world. Likewise, folks must take care of their children and be there in every moment. I really do not see the point in fighting with them. Not at an early age and not at any age. People should know what school is for and be smart about it.
I agree with the writer because nowaday world is completed by people who want to be first and if they do not achieve what they are looking for they get angry and depressed. I think that we have to learn to see the failures as our help for being better in the thing we are looking for.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion suicide is the last option so we have to deal with our problems and be positive instead of depressing and being sad.
It is true that nowadays everybody wants to be the best and there is like a kind of race. However, I think that every single person has to look for him, I mean, we should not compare ourselves with the folks. Parents are also guilty of the preasure their children suffer. It is an awful idea to chasten their son/daughter, it is better to try to help them. Sometimes they just need to cherish their endeavor.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the suicide is concerned, I reckon that people might be really desesperate to do that, I can´t deal with that idea.
It´s true that nowadays there are more teens that choose to suicide instead of deal with their problems, this could be a social problem. The preassure of school or family could be one of the main reason for it but also drugs and that kind of lifes also help us to enter into a depression situation.
ReplyDeleteLikewise, comparing ourselves with others who has achieve his/her aims is not good neither. From my point of view, since we start looking for something specific, we shlouldn,t feel like if we had got it because later if don´t we can also get into a depression. What it´s obbious is that if you are thinking in suicide, you are in a very bad situation and you don´t see light anywhere.